Feminine Voices in Mythology

Sirens. Half formed creatures. Monsters. Goddesses. Slaves. Captors. Witches. Villains.

These are the words that first spring to mind when I think of women who are widely known in mythology. Sure, goddesses might seem like a complementary word. But when speaking of goddesses in mythology, they generally exist only for the male gaze or for the pleasure of men.

This notion really didn’t dawn on me until I recently discovered two books set in ancient times whose objective was to retell and reform these original ‘classic,’ tales to include a female voice.

Both The Silence of the Girls by Pat Barker and Circe. by Madeline Miller, seek to reclaim lost voices that history conveniently skips over. These books couldn’t have more different narrators, but they contain this common theme of shedding light on the female perspective within mythology.

This is a long post on feminism in mythology and how it is needed, so buckle up readers.
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Lincoln in the Bardo

Lincoln in the BardoThis is one of these hauntingly beautiful reads that sticks with you even after you walk away. But I want to be upfront about a couple of possible triggers that some might find disturbing.  Mentions of suicide, rape, and incest, are a couple of things that come directly to mind. And while they aren’t flushed out in explicit detail, they are there. I just want it to be known that these types of heavy and dark subjects are mentioned.

Lincoln in the Bardo was an autumnal recommendation from another bookish friend of mine, Ellen. You should check out this post for her recommendations for this time of year, and also just check out her blog in general. She reads some really interesting things!

It is set shortly following the death of Abraham Lincoln’s son, Willie. And without giving too much away, the story is really creatively laid out. There are short snippets within quick chapters, which makes this a really quick read. It will also help if you’re someone like me who recently experience a major reading slump. This gave me back my reading grove.

Anyway, the narration inserts real life clips from various historical sources about the private lives of the Lincolns during Willie’s death, and the early days of the Civil War. It also switches over to the ghosts of a nearby graveyard where Willie has recently been interned. This is where this story begins to tug on your heart strings.

Learning the back stories of the various ghosts and how they came to be in the graveyard was interjected with the perfect amount of sadness and humor. Sometimes you even forgot they were no longer ‘human,’ because Saunders really takes great care to accentuate those mortal qualities that make us all one in the same, even in the after life.

Bevins, one of the primary ghosts who narrated the graveyard parts, really struck me. Two of the quotes that I marked fairly early on in my reading belonged to him. The initial one where we learn of his death really was too much for me to put in here, but if you ever do read, you will understand which passage I’m referring to. But based on the reason behind his death it really isn’t surprising that he is the one who also states:

“We were perhaps not so unloveable as we had come to believe.”

Even as a stand alone quote, it sounds so beautifully sad. In the afterlife, they all begin to believe that they are no longer deserving of love or recognition. This idea especially becomes apparent whenever a grieving Abe Lincoln appears to pay respects to his son Willie’s grave. Just thinking about it all brings a tear to my eye.

For fans of creatively written tales like The Book Thief, and for those who are intrigued by history, this marries those two concepts in a brilliant way that will simultaneously break you down and give you hope for a better place once we depart from this one.

The foreshadowing of future events at the end is another brilliant incorporation of history into a ghostly tale. I gave this an easy if_star-4_47965if_star-4_47965if_star-4_47965if_star-4_47965if_star-0_47961

Any other ghostly reads out there I should be aware of? Let me know! I would love to add to that part of my shelves!

Until next time bookish buds!

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Belgian Buddy Read & Tossing My TBR!

Hi [d: Hallo] friends!

My Belgian Buddy aka Emma (whom I probably talk about in at least every single blog post–annoying yet lol?) and I just finished our fourth read in our best friend book club! Our goals were to read the rest of the Outlander series together (along with the Lord John Grey series because hello, who doesn’t love him?) and we are nearly there!

This year we read three (3) books in the series! Yes, you read that correctly! For those of you not familiar with the series, each book will set you back at least 1,000 pages of reading time. I think maybe the first one is the only one exempt from this category. But feel free to correct me if I’m wrong! My memory isn’t quite what it used to be.

Prior to starting this serial buddy read with her, I think I was averaging  one (1) OL book every six to eight months. Meanwhile Emma read three (3) in one month haha. So I suppose the 3-4 months it takes us to get through the next three books kind of evens out our reading paces.

An Echo in the BoneAnyway, this latest one was titled An Echo in the Bone. (See my previous post about it if you want to see her pretty cover. Mine is the one featured in this post). And just like  almost every other novel in the series, it leaves a lot of things up in the air at the end. I think you can kind of see through our commentary below (found in my bullet journal) that we were simultaneously amused, confused, and frustrated by everything that was jammed packed into this 1,000(ish) page read.

Yes, there are explicit words below, so consider this your warning.

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As far as my ranking of the books in the series, I think I find them all pretty much on even ground. The only book that felt torturous to read was The Fiery Cross. Good thing I didn’t start doing these commentary pages then, it would have been me complaining the whole time with Emma calmly telling me there has to be a reason for this. Drums of Autumn was hard to get through as well. I think a lot of this is attributed to the fact that Claire and Jamie take up residence in a “new world,” (sort of punny if you know where they end up in this book) so a lot of new world building needs to take place.

But all of that aside DG does a great job at world building, character development and slowly revealing the significance of seemingly insignificant details. I seriously recommend this series to my historical fiction lovers who love time traveling to different periods in history.

I gave this one four (4) stars. It’s fast paced and quick (well as quick as a 1,000 page read can be ;)), and there are several storylines that run parallel to one another, which I think helps break it up. Still, these books are a rather large time commitment to read, so I highly recommend the buddy read system for them! I definitely wouldn’t be this far along in the series without Emma.

Also, check out the television series as well! It very closely resembles the novels, which makes me as a fan verra (‘very’) happy. Season 4 premiers on November 4th! I know Emma and I cannot wait to begin watching it during our ‘down time,’ between books.

Anyway, onto my second mini announcement. I have come to the conclusion that I need to toss the idea of a TBR. I announced via Instagram some books I planned on reading this month, and as I tried to pick a couple of them up and read through them, I found myself stuck.

So I have come to the conclusion that establishing a TBR just doesn’t work for me. I’m an impulse/spontaneous/’read what I want’ type of reader. I think all those years of being forced to read things as an English Lit student have caused this sort of rebellion in me.

And I think that is totally ok to admit that TBRs aren’t for you. The reason this kind of came up is because of all the recent readathons that pop up when the weather gets cozy and people tend to retreat indoors.

Most of them encourage the whole ‘announcement of your TBR,’ and while that might be find to allow some people to focus. I don’t think I will be participating in those types of challenges. They are just unrealistic goals for me that I will likely never meet, and then, when I do fail, I feel it hard.

Also, I read a billion resumes at work each day. I don’t want siting down to read a novel to feel like a chore either. This is my fun hobby. My escape from the daily grind. Trying to force myself to read things that don’t appeal to me in the moment kind of sucks the fun out of the whole reading experience and turns into work. And I don’t want it to feel that way.

That being said, I did participate in Dewey’s 24 Hour Readathon for a few hours yesterday, and I read a really awesome book called Lincoln in the Bardo. This was a recommendation from a newer bookish friend (who, ironically is also Belgian–seriously am I a magnet for this country & its people?). I will be talking more about that experience in another upcoming post! It is definitely one that deserves a stand alone review. 🙂

How about the rest of you? Are you “planners” or “go with the flow” type readers? Do you create TBRs or have you long tossed this idea? 

Until next time book buds!

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Fromage a Trois!

A special thanks to Amberjack Publishing and NetGalley for connecting me to this delectable read by Victoria Brownlee!

From start to finish, Fromage a Trois, promises to transport readers to the glamorous streets of Paris, and it fully delivers.41044566

Ella finds herself recently dumped, stuck at a job that has no foreseeable future, and soon to be thrust out of her glamorous Melbourne apartment. Heartbroken and fed up with her complacent life, Ella makes the decision to book a one way ticket to Paris for the adventure of a lifetime.

Her expectations of finding a glamorous job, apartment, and new love are dashed by the harsh realities and obstacles that come with being an expat. But still, Ella reacquaints herself with the thing that initially sparked her love of Paris: cheese.

Stumbling into a traditional French fromagerie, Ella sets upon a journey in France that ends up being quite different than the mental picture she initially held in her mind. And along the way, she finds herself again.

Fromage a Trois is a charming read bursting with humor, flavorful depictions of French cuisine, and a certain je ne sais quoi that keeps ones interest.

When Ella first arrives in Paris, she is full of social faux pas’ and uncertainty. She fumbles through the language, and even encounters a stereotypical French lover. Her character is believable and endearing. And her budding friendship and eventual cheese bet with “Mr. Cheeseman,” is just flat out adorable.

I found myself laughing out loud at certain parts, and also internally cheering Ella on to find her happy ending.

While the plot is fairly predictable, there are a couple of interesting curveballs thrown to readers. The writing, characters, and setting are what make this novel the great read that it is. It’s whimsical and decadent as it transports the reader to Paris and the many delights the city has to offer.

I gave this one a four star rating, and would highly recommend to anyone who wants to escape on a cheesy (quite literally) excursion to Paris!

For my next read, I’m heading off to Paris AGAIN. But this time, to solve a murder mystery!

Death in Paris by Emilia Bernhard is a series debut of two American sleuths in Paris tasked with solving the mysterious murder of a French financier. It has been a good while since I read a good mystery, so I am rather looking forward to it.

What is everyone else reading this crisp October? Anyone escaping to other countries in books or in real life? Or are you sticking with the more traditional, spooky reads? The rest of my October reads have some air of  ‘spookiness,’ to them. So if that’s your thing, stay tuned!

Until next time, book buds!

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Seasonal Book Slumps & My Lone September Read

Raise your hand if you’ve experienced a reading slump over the last month/few weeks?

*adamantly waves hand above my head*

For some reason, I noticed I wasn’t alone in feeling unmotivated to crack open my books and read daily. The majority of my bookstagram friends also mentioned this same overall feeling of despair when the subject turned to bookish relations.

So what is up with that? Is it a result of the seasonal change? The start of a new school year for those of you have cute little kids? Are all my fall/autumn lovers out their preoccupied with creating those ‘perfect aesthetics,’ in their homes and on their insta feeds?

I think it is a combination of those major seasonal/life events, and probably a host of other facts as well.

Because let’s face it, I have no children that vie for my attention. Well, unless of course you count my Reesie pup. And I know all you human rearing Mom’s probably just sighed heavily and eye rolled, but you just don’t know. She thinks she is a human baby, I swear.

Anyway, the point is, I started off this fall season with literal zero motivation to read. I think a lot of it had to do with my stress level & workload increase at work. My boss quit, so yay, my co-worker and I get to split managerial duties on top of all of our day to day stuff. So I think I have been running at full speed so much that it’s burning me out.

I mean, I can’t even tell you how many nights I went to bed at 8:00pm because it’s been nearly every night. This in turn, depresses me because what I really want to do are the things I really love in life like reading.

Not to mention, Emma and I are plowing through the Outlander series with our best friend bookclub. And boy, does it take work keeping pace with her on these. She was born for monster reads, it seems. I, on the other hand, need more variety to my reading schedule. Not that I don’t absolutely LOVE the series and LOVE reading them with her (Emma, don’t feel bad AT ALL if you’re reading this, this is my issue, not yours). Two DG books back to back has been a little much. I’m pretty sure I lifted my hands skyward and sang the Hallelujah chorus when she said she wanted a break between An Echo in the Bone and Written in My Hearts Blood.

So yeah, this month of September has been a total vicious cycle for me as far as goal setting and goal missing.

I am happy to report though that I did finish one (1) book this month! Yay, for seriously small victories! *does a little happy dance* And it was a NetGalley read, so I even felt a little more accomplished than I normally do. 🙂39864868

Nell and Lady tells the story of two girls, one white and one black being raised together against the backdrop of Charlestown, SC in the 1970s.

Some horrific act occurs on the night of Lady’s 16th birthday party that alters their lives and their friendship forever. It isn’t until their mother, Willa, is diagnosed with cancer that the two woman’s paths cross again decades later.

Both women are still nursing old wounds they’ve carried within them since that night while attempting to raise their teenage children to be better than themselves.

A tragic twist of fate makes them come to realize the true meaning of family.

I gave this book 2.5 stars. There were quite a few things about it that I just couldn’t get over or that just didn’t resonate well with me.

First of all, the author does make some bold moves to touch upon some major social issues that still pop up in our media today. She takes great care to also throw in some great references to modern day works that all of us in the bookish community and food lovers in general can appreciate. But the problem I had with her highlighting the issues of racism, sexual abuse, adopted families, and many more that I won’t bring up, is that she just touched upon them. They weren’t really explored as fully as they could have been in order to bring about better growth and understanding in these characters. I felt like I wanted more emotional depth as a result.

Another thing is the characters felt a bit stock-ish. Sure, they went through a transformation, but it wasn’t until the last couple of chapters. The main reason for their reconciliation in the synopsis is misleading. And I was surprised that an ailing parent wasn’t enough for these two girls to really get over the past, or at least hash it out, and then try to make the most of the time they had.

The dialogue also felt a bit awkward to me. It was overly formal and explanative at times, which made it sound either cheesy or just cringe worthy. After reflecting on this a bit, I think the author was trying to set a “southern tone,” but if that was the case, I wanted to be transported to the south. I didn’t feel a deep connection to the setting (merely mentioning landmarks in Charleston, to someone who has never been doesn’t really do much), and as a result, the dialogue didn’t always work for me.

Wow. I have been so overly negative in this review. So let me talk about some more things I did like about this.

I really did like that Ashley Farley took “the sins of the past,” and kind of replicated similar issues in the lives of Nell and Lady’s children. Booker and Regan’s story paralleled their mother’s a lot, which made for nice juxtaposition whenever the narrator shifted. Also the fact that they act as the catalyst for a lot of things in this story was a nice surprise that you didn’t get from the synopsis.

I also liked that Booker and Regan stayed strictly friends throughout this. I love an author who can create a male/female dynamic that is strictly platonic. Because hello, it can happen. Their relationship also reminded me a lot about one of my guy friend’s from high school, so I was really drawn to that.

Also, I read something in her acknowledgments that made me feel less bad about not loving this book. Farley took a moment to thank her editor by saying that she was appreciative for becoming a stronger writer from her efforts, but she also was glad she could still sound like herself. Anyone who writes for him or herself first deserves respect in my eyes. I thought to myself, good for her to staying true to herself and her writing.

All in all, I want to thank Lake Union Publishing for the opportunity to read this story. I never read anything in the southern genre before, although I have a quite a few books on my TBR shelf now. I hope this book does the author well. It seems like she has a good following and fan base to date.

Anyone else read Ashley Farley’s books before? Am I totally off base with my review here? How is everyone doing with their reading this fall? Let’s talk if you’re feeling slumpy or just coming out of one!

Until next time, book buds!

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In the Midnight Room

Another NetGalley read finished for the month!

This vacation week hasn’t just been all play and no work. Ok, so maybe it MOSTLY has been all play and no work. There’s just something relaxing about being able to stick your toes in the sand and unwind to the sounds and smells of the ocean while diving into a good book.

In the Midnight Room by Laura McBride was one I got through NetGalley, just because. I honestly didn’t expect when I signed up for the site to be approved for nearly every single read that I requested. It is a lot different than those near impossible Goodreads Giveaways. Seriously has anyone out there won one of those?

But anyone, this one had the earliest pub date (which I missed by about a week) so I went for it. And this one was pretty good.

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Three women from different decades with diverse backgrounds find their lives intersecting in unexpected ways. All set against the backdrop of Las Vegas and the up’s and down’s that encompass this area.

We first meet June, a free spirited woman who left a small town in Jersey for the bright lights and excitement of Las Vegas in the 1960s. June’s story was intriguing given her aversion to segregation in the casino she ran with her husband. She was a trailblazer, someone who truly didn’t care what people thought of her differing opinions. I found her sections the most enjoyable to read and got through those ones the quickest.

Following June we meet Honorita, a Filipino mail order bride, who ended up striking it rich in America. Her story was tinged with sadness, but her stony exterior made it hard to feel a deep connection to her. Still, I was glad for how things ended for her.

We also have Coral, who isn’t mentioned in the original synopsis, but she has a critical role in the story. I honestly thought her character was more deeply explored than our third protagonist, Engracia. I really enjoyed her familial relations and the scenes she had with her siblings and then nieces and nephews.

And then there was Engracia. While we understand why Engracia was the way she was or acted the did, there was a lot lacking with her character. For as much time as McBride spent flushing out the other three characters, I felt like Engracia’s story was rushed and left the most holes in the plot. I wanted to know more about her.

All in all, McBride created interesting and diverse characters with realistic problems and brought them together in both unexpected and expected ways. Not only do her characters and their lives draw you in, but In the Midnight Room, also touched upon a lot of important issues in America’s history. Alluding to critical events during the Civil Rights movement, and then turning it into a personal struggle for a couple of our primary characters. In addition to racism, this book also mentioned immigration issues, particularly those surrounding sex trafficking and illegal immigration.

The writing wasn’t lush with descriptions, leaving the reader room to interpret scenes to their liking. The style didn’t show much, but rather told the reader about a lot of things the characters experienced. It was also a little introspective at times, jumping back and forward in time. Everything had purpose and meaning and came together in the end, but there were a couple of things that could have been edited out.

The pacing was a little slow at times, but there were moments of suspense that made me want to plow through multiple chapters at a time. I thought this was a solid 3 star read, and I would recommend it if you’re looking for a female oriented drama that spanned several decades and included characters with diverse backgrounds.

What is everyone else reading to close out their summers? I’d love to hear from you!

Until next time bookworms!

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Best Friend Book Club Update!

(feat. Emma & Lynn)

As some of you know, my bookish (and Belgian) best friend Emma and myself began a little book club of our own to stay in touch in spite of the thousands of miles of ocean and six hour time zone between us. Last year, we started with The Fiery Cross from the Outlander series (side note: Emma spent the entire previous summer reading books 2-4. Seriously, I have no idea how she read all those pages to be honest, 1 of these books easily takes me two months). Then we moved onto The Book Thief to quench our thirst for a historical fiction. And we just finished up the next book in the Outlander Series: A Breath of Snow & Ashes.

10965I have to say, A Breath of Snow & Ashes is probably my favorite Outlander book since the third installment, Voyager. It was jammed packed with action and adventure, along with the usual familial drama that descends upon Fraser’s Ridge. I gave it a solid 4 star rating.

As long as it was, I didn’t often feel like it dragged on and on for decades of my life.

*cough*The Fiery Cross*coughcough* I’m looking at you *coughcough*.

Sure, sometimes I feel like some of themes and tropes utilized are a bit repetitive from time to time. I believe I wallowed, “Another abduction?” at Emma with an eye roll emoji. But for the most part, DG (our nickname Diana Gabaldon) does everything for a reason.

As Emma says, if someone doesn’t die in front of your eyes while reading, they will come back sooner or later. Which is good because I am all about a story with purpose in it.

Anyway, as featured in my Booktubeathon Results post, I shared summary pages from my bullet journal of the different books I read.

This one is a little different because it is apart of the best friend book club reading series. In this one, I decided to include some quotes that Emma and I shared with one another as we read on. I really thought this was a cute idea to commemorate this experience and to set these books apart from the other ones we might be reading. So I thought it made sense to share this with you all, since this is a key component to my blogging experience. Please be advised that some of the language might be strong (I probably gave her my terrible swearing habit), so if that is something that offends you feel free to look away.

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Also, I feel like it is some kind of unwritten rule of bullet journaling that washi tape will somehow save all the mistakes you make. But hey, this one actually fit the cover the title so I thought why not take advantage of that?

Our third read for the best friend book club was a success (but honestly I wouldn’t expect anything less from us)! Usually we decide to break between Outlander books because they are so cumbersome and time consuming. But due to the nature of how A Breath of Snow and Ashes ends, we’ve decided to jump right into book seven, An Echo in the Bone.

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Emma’s beautiful cover is featured here because mine is just a plain, boring lime green one. Let’s just take a minute to appreciate the gorgeous cover above.

As far as other reads this month, I’m not entirely sure I will get to them. I go on vacation starting Friday, so I might just want to take it a bit easy and continue on with this one. But I promised my Mum I would give her my copy of Crazy Rich Asians to read on the beach, so that one might also get read. I also planned to bring along my BOTM pick: Goodbye, Paris. We shall see what happens, but for now I am content with starting my fourth best friend book club read!

What is everyone else out there reading? Any other Outlander fans? Let’s connect! Emma and I love fangirling with new people! 

Until next time bookworms!

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